The Narcissist's Child contains my experiences as the child of a malignant narcissist and my understanding of the disorder. It is an attempt to describe and demonstrate the dynamics of a relationship with a narcissist, particularly a malignant narcissist mother, to people who have little or no experience with the disorder, those who have been left reeling by the unexpected repercussions of being involved with a narcissist, and for those who, having been involved with one, need the support that come from knowing that you are not alone.
I am not a mental health professional and nothing on The Narcissist's Child
should be taken as an expert opinion. This are my experiences,
perceptions, and opinions, nothing more. Nothing here is a substitute
for the advice of or the diagnosis and treatment by, a mental health
professional. Do not rely on information on this site as a substitute
for the advice of a qualified mental health professional.
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and identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of the
innocent and guilty alike (and to rob the narcissists of the glory of
seeing their names or stories in print).
It is difficult to deal with a narcissist when you are a grown, independent, fully functioning adult. The children of narcissists have an especially difficult burden, for they lack the knowledge, power, and resources to deal with their narcissistic parents without becoming their victims. Whether cast into the role of Scapegoat or Golden Child, the Narcissist's Child never truly receives that to which all children are entitled: a parent's unconditional love. Start by reading the 46 memories--it all began there.